We are not advising you to doubt your partner all the time, but if you notice a negative change in their actions or reactions, then trying to have some surety about things won’t do any bad. It can be you whose partner is secretly sleeping with someone else while apparently dating you. It can always be you.
1. They Take Longer and Longer to Call or Text You Back
If they take too long to text you back or return a call, then there are chances of them cheating on you. In the dating period, you get to know how quick they are at replying to your texts and how long it takes them to get back to you on a phone call. It does not take too much time to reply to a text and even if they are actually busy, it won’t be once or twice. Repetition of late response is a sign for you.
2. They Come Home Late From Work
This one may sound like a dramatic and typical sign but people actually make excuses like ‘There’s a lot of work today’ when they want to sneak out for something illegitimate. It is really stupid of them to use it but it can be a signal for you to be in charge and find out what’s happening, especially if it starts happening frequently. Call them on it, or call their boss if your doubt increases. Do not be shy or care about what he will think, because if they are actually sleeping with another person, you will regret not questioning them earlier.
3. They Take a Shower As Soon As They Get Home
Their sudden habit of getting into the shower as soon as they return from work or somewhere else may be because of the new person they are spending time with. This sign may not be very common but if you notice them becoming a shower-freak, then there are chances they want to get rid of the smell of the person they slept with or anything else that will get them caught, like a kiss-mark.
4. They Are Not As Exciting in Bed As They Used to Be
You obviously know the urges and desires your partner has about love making and you are the only one who satisfies their needs, but if, lately, they have not been showing any need for sex, then there is something wrong. If the change is sudden and the disinterest in you comes as a shock without any good explanation for it, then they may be sleeping with someone else.
5. They Pay More Attention to Self-Grooming
If your partner is usually not too interested in looking good, but they suddenly starting paying too much attention to their looks, maybe they are either trying to impress someone (which maybe you or) other than you or have already impressed someone. These are all signs for you to only be suspicious and make sure that whether they are doing it for themselves or for someone else.
6. They Bring New Moves to Bed
If they adopt a new position or kiss you in a different way, be alert. New moves can be a sign of new sex partner in their life, although it is not necessary. They may be sleeping with someone else where they used those new techniques and now confusedly brought it to you. You can ask them where they learned it from in a way that does not imply that you doubt them. If you see them hesitating while answering it then maybe they did learn it by experimenting on another person.
All these signs are the most common ones that can help you tell if your partner is seeing or sleeping with someone else. Cheating is terrible and living with someone who is not trustworthy is not healthy, let alone acceptable.